Tuesday, July 1, 2014

BET Awards 2014 Rocked the House

The BET awards never ceases to amaze me, as I am always ready for some 'good ole' authentic black soul music and I love to feed my political appetite as well, which was effectively done by this years host, comedian Chris Rock. 
Mr. Rock (seen above), always gives you the political realness for reality with a side of laughter to go with it and lets face it, with the political sphere being what it is today it helps to laugh when you really want to cry -- which is why I enjoyed his comedic skit at the Monster Truck rally where he quizzed white people on all things BET, it was absolutely hilarious!

Singer Pharrell and infamous rapper Missy Elliott opened up the show with 'Come Get It Bae', which seemed to get everyone in the mood for a good time. I was most impressed and excited to see Chris Brown perform his infamous hit 'These Hoes Ain't Loyal', and waited anxiously for him to bust out in one of his legendary dance routines which he did, and I was thoroughly entertained.

It was great to see rapper Lil Wayne again -- and in good health might I add, since he has been pretty much hidden

from site lately and I often missed his lively performances coupled with his poetic lyrics. And Hip Hop Queen Nicki Minaj, never disappoints as she meshed femininity with her at times hardcore lyrics during her 'Pills and Potion' theatrical segment, giving you rough and smooth all at the same time while flashing that fabulous body that keeps your eyes glued to the television set.

As Nicki (seen-r) accepted her fifth award for the Best Female Hip Hop Artist category, it was said that she threw slight shade at rapper Iggy Azalea who performed earlier in the show, as she calmly and facetiously stated "What I want the world to know about Nicki Minaj is when you hear Nicki Minaj spit, Nicki Minaj wrote it," and she went on to thank the CEO of BET Debra Lee, for rewarding "Authentic" artists. Calling out the carbon copies, Nicki? I ain't mad at you!

Singers John Legend, Ledisi and Yolanda Adams sang brilliantly their tributes to the legendary Lionel Richie, who received the BET Lifetime Achievement Award. Then Mr. Richie got on stage to remind us why we've followed him for so many years, as he performed hits like 'All Night Long' and 'Easy Like Sunday Morning'.

Then BET took it back to the 90's with hits like, 'All I Do is Think of You' by Troop, 'I Wanna Sex You Up' by Color Me Bad, and 'Freaky With You' by Silk.

Actress Phylicia Rashad walked out on stage looking timeless, graceful and womanly, as she delivered her speech on legendary artists who've recently passed on, Maya Angelou and Ruby Dee. 

Chairman and CEO of BET Debra Lee, gave the audience a history lesson as she took us down memory lane with her speech and background images to remind us of Freedom Summer 1964, using it as a symbol of the progress we've made thus far with Civil Rights Activist Myrlie Evers-Williams, accepting the BET Humanitarian Award as she eloquently stated that there's still more progress to be made and to keep up the good fight, as she expressed that there was a time when black people weren't allowed on television networks.

Which is why I was especially happy to see so many new black movie trailers during the commercial breaks, it was at least 4-5 new black films coming out with all black casts -- and that's something to be proud of for sure.

Towards the end of the show Robin Thicke pleaded his 'Forever Love' case through song once more to his estranged wife Paula Patton, as a means of trying to win her back after she left him due to his previous infidelities. 

But the highlight of the evening was the performance by Jay Z and Beyonce, which seemed like a bit of a trick as most people thought the duo was in the building and set to give a live show -- but no such luck. The married couple is still carrying out their 'On The Run' tour but allowed BET to show their 'Partition' performance via satellite, which was as equally entertaining, sexy and impressive even if it wasn't a live show.

Overall, the 2014 BET Awards rocked the house and I can't wait to see how next years show will top this one. 

2014 LA

Monday, June 23, 2014

Open Letter to Blue Ivy Carter

Dear Blue,

How are you doing? I hope well, considering that you're only two years old, and already experiencing the harsh reality of what it means to be "black" in America.

I've been seeing a lot of articles and social media sites that have berated you for being a little black girl, but of course you wouldn't know the first thing about articles and social media...after all you're still a baby!

Coming from one sista girl to another, I just wanted you to know that I think you are absolutely beautiful. The features that you hone from your mommy and daddy are essential to you, and the naturalness of your hair is also essential to you...it is what makes you Blue!

Because your parents are famous you will almost always be in the limelight, even when you may be having a bad hair day -- but we've all had those days before...you are not alone. But just know that when you become older it is imperative to stay true to who you are, no matter what others may say or do. Love yourself first because when you do that, it becomes easier for you to love others.

You will be taught many history lessons but the greatest of them all, will be the lesson about your blackness; the melanin in your skin, your high cheekbones, the
fullness of your lips, the wideness of your nose, the natural curves of your body which you will more than likely inherit from your Momma B, and of course the kinky, coily nature of your hair. Your entire being is a history lesson and you'd be wise to take heed, so that it becomes easier for you to understand who you are and where you come from.

No matter what Blue, make sure to love all of your person -- the inside and the outside for you are uniquely wonderful. God made you exactly the way you are supposed to be and don't ever let anyone tell you different. 

And always remember Blue, what you inherited naturally millions of people pay thousands of dollars to receive through needle injections, tanning salons, augmentations and implants, hoping to hide the deeply held insecurities that lie within.

Love, 

LA